I have mulled over my issues with trust and security.
My conclusions are that I will continue to give people my trust when they have earned it. I will still be cautious and vigilant about my personal and possessions security. Some people are not as honest as myself and have morals of a different standard, so why put temptation in their way. But I am going to try and not inflict my levels of insecurity on other people, as I have come to the conclusion that they have to be comfortable and secure with what they feel is right for themselves.... While out and about I came across a situation that made me question if I am too suspicious and untrusting of people who are not in my close circle of friends. Who I would trust unquestionably.
I am very vigilante in keeping my belongings and property safe and secure. I think I am observant, but am I too nosey and read too much into situations. Being burgled years ago has definitely made me extremely cautious when leaving the house empty. Alarm on, lights on timers and curtains twitched by a neighbour. I definitely have a scar on my psyche because of the burglary. A horrible and an uncomfortable feeling having your possessions stolen never to be seen again. Your home trashed by unknowns while you are away. Insurance covers the cost but cannot replace the emotional attachments you have with things. So I am going to carry on thinking about this conundrum for a while longer. Before coming to a definitive answer. Supposedly the saddest, depressing day of the year. Because of the day, weather, debt, days to Christmas. Shown scientifically not to exist but some people have taken it to their heart and turn it around to use the day to do a good deed and bring a bit of happiness into somebody else's life.
http://www.bluemonday.org can be followed on twitter @blue_monday not sure what I am going to do for a good deed. I am sure something will happen during the day, so that I can bring a smile to somebody's face. My wish for the world is that all people would respect each other and life itself.
I respect the right of anybody to their beliefs and thoughts, as long as in doing so they don't harm anybody or anything else. Great, if that is what makes you content and fulfilled. I don't want to change people with the premise that my values and thoughts are better than theirs and neither should other people want to change me and anybody else's lives with their values. The world would be a lot happier and peaceful place to live in. On a grey, cold winter's Sunday how do you bring sunshine into your and other peoples' lives.
Look through old photographs and pass them around through Social Media. They brings back memories of Happy bygone days. Topics of celebrations, holidays and Family growing up. Enjoy a few photograhps: I intend to make the best of a bad job. weather atrocious. made a list of jobs to do and I am going to carry on regardless. so if the bird seed or even the actually bird feeders get blown into the next village. so be it.
If you're having trouble falling asleep, count backwards from 99. Most times you'll fall asleep before even getting to 50. On the 07/01/14 I posted a blog about friends and going out to lunch. Well one year on, I am going out for the day to chat, laugh and have lunch with the same bunch of ladies. Amazing. Creatures of habit or we meet on a Wednesday and this is the first one after New Year.
A year on, no deer charging round the garden. But we do have a fieldfare that has been in the garden for weeks, eating up the windfall apples and the small crab apples still on the tree. Watch my video on You Tube. "fieldfare in garden" |
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